The St. Valentine's Day
Valentine's Day falls on
February 14, and is the traditional day on which lovers in certain cultures let each other know about their love, commonly by sending
Valentine's cards, which are often anonymous. The history of Valentine's day can be traced back to an obscure
Catholic Church feast day, said to be in honor of
Saint Valentine, are discussed below. The day's associations with
romantic love arrived after the High
Middle Ages, during which the concept of romantic love was formulated.
The day is now most closely associated with the mutual exchange of love notes in the form of "valentines." Modern Valentine symbols include the heart-shaped outline and the figure of the winged
Cupid. Starting in the
19th century, the practice of hand writing notes has largely given way to the exchange of mass-produced
greeting cards. The
Greeting Card Association estimates that, world-wide, approximately one billion valentine cards are sent each year, making the day the second largest card-sending holiday of the year behind
Christmas. The association also estimates that women purchase approximately 85 percent of all valentines.
History of Valentine's Day
February fertility festivals
The association of the middle of February with love and fertility dates to ancient times. In the calendar of Ancient Athens, the period between mid January and mid February was the month of Gamelion, which was dedicated to the sacred
marriage of
Zeus and
Hera.
In
Ancient Rome, the day of
February 15 was
Lupercalia, the festival of
Lupercus, the god of fertility, who was represented as half-naked and dressed in
goat skins. As part of the purification ritual, the priests of Lupercus would sacrifice goats to the god, and after drinking
wine, they would run through the streets of Rome holding pieces of the goat skin above their heads, touching anyone they met. Young women especially would come forth voluntarily for the occasion, in the belief that being so touched would render them fruitful and bring easy
childbirth.
According to the
Catholic Encyclopedia (1908), at least three different Saints Valentine, all of them
martyrs and all quite obscure, are mentioned in the early martyrologies under the date of
February 14:
- a priest in Rome who suffered martyrdom in the second half of the 3rd century and was buried on the Via Flaminia.
- a bishop of Interamna (modern Terni) also suffered martyrdom in the second half of the 3rd century and was also buried on the Via Flaminia, but in a different location than the priest.
- a martyr in North Africa, about whom little else is known.
The connection between St. Valentine and romantic love is not mentioned in any early histories and is regarded by historians as purely a matter of legend (see below). The feast of St. Valentine was first declared to be on
February 14 by
Pope Gelasius I in
496. There is a widespread legend that he created the day to counter the practice held on Lupercalia of young men and women pairing off as lovers by drawing their names out of an urn, but this practice is not attested in any sources from that era.
In the
19th century,
relics of St. Valentine were donated by
Pope Gregory XVI to the
Whitefriar Street Carmelite Church in
Dublin,
Ireland, which has become a popular place of pilgrimage on
February 14.
In
1969, as part of a larger effort to pare down the number of saint days of purely legendary origin, the Church removed St. Valentine's Day as an official holiday from its calendar.
Valentinius
The influential
Gnostic teacher
Valentinius was a candidate for Bishop of Rome in
143. In his teachings, the marriage bed assumed a central place in his version of Christian love, an emphasis sharply in contrast with the asceticism of mainstream Christianity. Stephan A. Hoeller assesses Valentinius on the subject : "In addition to baptism, anointing, eucharist, the initiation of priests and the rites of the dying, the Valentinian Gnosis mentions prominently two great and mysterious sacraments called "redemption" (
apolytrosis) and "bridal chamber" respectively"
[1].
Medieval era

Swedish calendar showing St Valentine's Day 14 February 1712
The first recorded association of St. Valentine's Day with romantic love was in the
14th century in
England and
France, where
February 14 was traditionally the day on which birds paired off to mate. This belief is mentioned in
Geoffrey Chaucer's
Parlement of Foules(1381) that
- :for this was on seynt Volantynys day
- :Whan euery bryd comyth there to chese his mate.
In the following century, one of
John Lydgate's minor poems is "A balade made..in wyse of chesing loues at Saint Valentynes day" which indicates that the manner of choosing was drawing lots. By the 17th century a valentine was extended to the gift given, some pretty token.
It was common during that era for lovers to exchange notes on this day and to call each other their "Valentines". A 14th century valentine is said to be in the collection of the British Library. It is probable that many of the legends about St. Valentine were invented during this period. Among the legends are ones that assert that:
- On the evening before St. Valentine was to be martyred for being a Christian, he passed a love note to his jailer's daughter which read, "From Your Valentine."
- During a ban on marriages of Roman soldiers by the Emperor Claudius II, St. Valentine secretly helped arrange marriages.
In most versions of these legends,
February 14 is the date associated with his martyrdom.
Valentine's Day in the USA
Valentine's Day was probably imported into
North America in the
19th century with settlers from Britain. In the United States, the first mass-produced valentines of embossed paper lace were produced and sold shortly after
1847 by Esther A. Howland (
1828 -
1904) of
Worcester, Massachusetts. Her father operated a large book and stationery store, and she took her inspiration from an English valentine she had received. (Since
2001, the Greeting Card Association has been giving an annual "Esther Howland Award for a Greeting Card Visionary".)
In the United States in the second half of the
20th century, the practice of exchanging cards was extended to include the giving of all manner of gifts, usually from the man to the woman. Such gifts typically include
roses and
chocolate. Starting in the
1980s, the
diamond industry began to promote Valentine's Day as occasion for the giving of fine jewelry.
The day has come to be associated with a generic
platonic greeting of "Happy Valentine's Day."
Those without a
significant other often speak with
sarcasm by referring to Valentine's Day as Single's Awareness Day.
Valentine's Day in Other Cultures
In
Japan, and
Korea Valentine's Day has emerged, thanks to a concentrated marketing effort, as a day on which women give chocolates to men they like. Rather than being voluntary however, this has become for many women – especially those who work in offices – an obligation, and they give chocolates to all their male co-workers, sometimes at significant personal expense. This chocolate is known as
giri-choco (義理チョコ), from the words
giri (obligation) and
choco, a common short version of
chokoreeto (チョコレート), meaning chocolate.
By a further marketing effort, a reciprocal day, called
White Day has emerged. On this day (
March 14), men are supposed to return the favour by giving something to those who gave them chocolates on Valentine's Day. Many men, however, give only to their girlfriends. Originally the return gift was supposed to be white chocolate or marshmallows (hence the name "White Day"). However, more recently men have taken the name to a different meaning, thus
lingerie is quite a common gift.
In Chinese Culture, there is a similar counterpart of the Valentine's Day. It is called "The Night of Sevens", on the 7th day of the 7th month of the lunar calendar; the next one being
August 11,
2005 [2].
In
Brazil, there is no such day as Valentine's Day. Instead, on
June 12, "Dia dos Namorados" (or "Boyfriend's/Girlfriend's Day") is celebrated. On this day, boyfriends and girlfriends, husbands and wives, exchange gifts (lingerie, chocolates, and more), cards and usually a flower bouquet. This day is chosen probably because it is one day before the Saint Anthony's day, there known as the
marriage saint, when many single women perform popular rituals in order to find a good husband (or, more modernly at least a boyfriend).